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The Desteni of Living – Utmost Potential (Part 2): DAY 2


The Desteni of Living – Utmost Potential: DAY 2
The Principle of Realising and Living my Utmost Potential

In this post and posts to come, I am discussing what ‘Realising and Living my Utmost Potential’ practically means – through showing how I have (and still do) live and realise this Principle.

STEP 1: Recognizing my own Potential (Self Forgiveness)

Here I will walk a Self Forgiveness Process showing how I accepted and allowed myself to suppress me and so my potential, to the extent of not even recognizing that I had potential. Essentially constructing myself in my Mind in such a way where I ‘lost’ a part of myself and completely embraced the acceptance and allowance of self limitation. This so severe that, when I was given Responsibility – more than I had ever had, it took me a while to break through the barriers of self limitation I had set for myself. It was quite a process within myself and between this individual that gave me the responsibility to eventually allow myself to open up to myself, my potential and FOR MYSELF see what I am able to do if I would but only allow myself to see / realise and apply / live. In this Self Forgiveness and Self Commitment Process I will show the process of what I faced in my Mind and outside world in relation to self-limitation and how I assisted and supported myself to transcend this:

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed the self-belief of “I am not good enough”

I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to see, realise and understand how such a self-belief – if given enough thoughts and energy, would become ME, through and through, to the extent where this self-belief is all that I will see and be; locking myself down / into myself to not be able to see the potential of being / becoming anything ‘more’.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to hold onto the characteristics and traits of such a self-belief as “not being good enough”, where this self-belief would become my presence and my actions – leading to giving up / giving in before I even started and in so doing, not showing myself and so others anything different in who I am in word and deed than being undependable and irresponsible – because every time I was given responsibility, I would give up / give in and essentially sabotage the opportunity to prove to myself and others of being capable of doing / being ‘more’

I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to not see, realise and understand how my “within” would become my “without” – where: I kept on accepting and allowing self-doubt, insecurity, fear, uselessness to sabotage my relationship to responsibility, then responsibility would come and accept/allow “I am not good enough” to take over – which then leads to me disappointing myself and others when it comes to responsibilities until eventually…I stopped placing myself in ‘responsible’ / ‘dependable’ situations and embraced the ‘irresponsible’ / ‘undependable’ persona
I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed to see, realise and understand how an IDEA of self, becomes a belief, becomes your being and so embodies your actions – such as “I am not good enough” / “I can’t do this” / “I won’t be able to do this”, which then generates emotions of self doubt, insecurity, fear, uselessness etc. and fascinatingly enough – how these relationships becomes a vicious cycle from within self, to the without and then from the without to the within where: first it’s the idea, then the believing of the idea, then the becoming of the idea that is then lived into the outside world, where the outside world will then respond to you as the IDEA you are projecting, which then confirms your IDEA of yourself and so over and over and over again – you are stuck in the cycle of eventual self-destruction

I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to see, realise and understand the extent to which this initial idea of myself that then became my self-belief – my “I’m not good enough”-religion, the extent to which it possessed me that I did not ever consider changing myself…it’s as though the prospect of change or even being able to change myself was so non-existent that if I were left to my own vices…I would have surely this life not been where I am and who I am in this moment; seeing, realising and understanding how much of ourselves is purely based on ideas / self-beliefs that can be CHANGED – we only don’t realise / see this POTENTIAL because we’re so lost, locked-in and possessed on a mind, being and physical level into and as ideas / beliefs that it seems SO CEMENTED…so unchangeable that we simply do not even consider change…

I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to see, realise and understand that I would not have been able to assist and support myself in my self-change process – if I was not shown the POTENTIAL I have for change / self-change; this POTENTIAL of change / self change exists within and as the moment you SHOW YOURSELF that you can change / correct yourself, learn from mistakes and so grow, develop and expand within who you are in thought, word and deed – so that the within change, for the without to change; which then completely changes your experience and life experience

In the next post I will continue with Self Forgiveness and Self Commitment Statements – showing how the FIRST INSTANCE of realising that POTENTIAL EXISTS…is where you SHOW YOURSELF you can change, this being the first SEED of SELF POTENTIAL that becomes planted and with being nourished…you will flower / grow into and as your utmost potential…