To
Stop the Fight – You have to Understand the Fight…
I will in the next post share how I
am and have been dealing with / directing this ‘fighting’ that I’ve become
aware of within me – sharing the nature and design of it within the mind /
consciousness and how to support yourself to release your being from such a
state of living and experience. More importantly: why it is pivotal to change
this nature within yourself to be able to support others to change as well – so
that we stop creating and living in a world defined by ‘fighting to live’ and
start creating and living in a world defined by reason and purpose and LIVE,
for self and all of existence as well.
I
will, through walking Self Forgiveness, share insights and realisations I’ve
had regarding this ‘fighting nature’ and the extent of it; but more
importantly: how I have become aware of the manifested consequence this ‘fighting
experience’ creates in your relationship with yourself and everything /
everyone else in your life. Where, we’ve become so used to this ‘constant
fighting’ with others, within ourselves and with life itself - that we barely
recognise / see it. Yet, the consequence
of it comes through / reveals itself in various ways which you may also be able
to relate to as I continue through the Self Forgiveness journey:
I
forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to, in my life – be so
focused on my limited definition of the words ‘fighting’ and ‘to fight’ that I
always only focused on working through memories / moments of fighting when it
came to arguments with people in my life and/or only focusing on fighting as it
exists on a global scale when it comes to wars / violence etc. Not allowing
myself to take a breath and take a step back when it comes to my personal
responsibility of my relationship with me, my own mind and asking myself: “but
wait, where EXACTLY are these moments of fighting with myself, with others in
the secret of my Mind and/or in real time moments in reality actually coming
from?” Why have I not seen / realised that the moments of fighting in the
secrets of my mind and/or in real time moments with others are but an outflow
consequence of a nature / a part of me coming through that I am accepting and
allowing to come into creation when it manifests as fighting in my mind and so
also in my relationships with others in my life?
I
forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to see, realise and
understand that I have always only ever been working with the ‘symptoms’ / ‘outflow
consequence’ as ‘manifested consequence’ of a core / source nature / part of me
in the depths of my mind and being when it came to only focusing on the ‘moments
of fights’ in the secrets of my mind and in real moments with others in my
life. That I haven’t seen, realised and understood or became aware of the fact
that: the ‘fighting’ in my mind and with others in my life only came into
creation because there is a deeper part of me in my mind / being bringing it
into creation. Not remembering that, the moment something manifests either in
one’s mind or one’s life – it’s originating from a greater / deeper part of one’s
nature / presence.
I
forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to diminish and limit my
own awareness of me, my mind by always only focusing on the ‘surface’ / ‘conscious’
experiences when it came up in my thoughts and/or when it was actually already
too late by the time when I participate in an argument / fight with another
person and only during / afterwards wanting to fix / mend the relationship /
experience with another. I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed
myself to see, realise and understand that everything that comes up in my mind
and in my life is outflow consequence – it’s already “too late” as it’s
something that has already come into creation and manifested.
I
forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to “apply the
principle of prevention” by taking a breath, taking a step back and asking
myself “but what IN me and OF me is bringing these ‘fights’ in my mind and with
others in my life into creation?” “Why am I only ever trying to deal with / fix
/ mend and take responsibility for the fights I accept and allow to play out in
my mind / my life only once it’s already happened?”
To take
with you in this post: the process I briefly showed above within the Self
Forgiveness statements is what assisted and supported me to really see and
become aware of the depths and scope of this ‘fighting nature’ within the mind
and self. Initially, if you have a look at it: you mostly deal with and sort
out ‘fights’ in your mind and with others in your life only during / after it
has happened – never realising that such ‘fights’ that already manifested in
your mind and your life is but an outflow consequence creation / manifestation…trying
to ‘fix’ / ‘mend’ / ‘deal with’ such fighting only during / after is already ‘too
late’.
To
REALLY understand this nature of fighting within one’s mind and one’s life you
have to take a DEEPER look into your mind / consciousness and what within the
mind / self is bringing such experiences within self and one’s life into
creation.
This
I will continue with in the next post – again through Self Forgiveness
statements sharing the deeper energy / dimensions of the mind / consciousness
involved with bringing such ‘fighting’ within self and with others in one’s
life into creation. Also, how to PREVENT the creation / manifestation of such
fighting within oneself and one’s mind through the process of redefining and
living words…
